Useful Tips When Changing Your Surname
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Changing your surname can be either really simple or really tricky. It depends on the situation and the circumstances, and while some people do it of their own free will, others change it in certain situations that require them to do so. In any case, when changing your surname, there are some things that can make the entire process easier.
We aren’t talking about tricks to get things done faster, or cheaper. Instead, we’ll discuss a few tips that will help you get through the process in an easier way. You’ll understand how things go when changing your surname, and you’ll know a few things that you should keep in mind when doing so.
The Simplest Time to Change Your Surname is Either During the Marriage or During Divorce
In most places around the world, changing the surname is something that’s commonly discussed when you’re getting married or divorced. When you’re getting married, many places around the world will allow you to legally change your last name to the surname of your new spouse. You could also hyphenate your two surnames, or even create an amalgamation of your surnames.
If you do decide to change your last name when you’re getting married, you actually won’t need a court order. You’ll just need to write your new name on the marriage license, and use the marriage certificate at places such as your bank, the SSA, or the DMV as proof.
When getting divorced, you might want to legally change your last name back to your maiden name. This is something that you can get the judge to do, during the process itself. The name change should show up on the Divorce Decree (or Decree of Dissolution) and you can start using your maiden name again.
You Actually Don’t Need to Hire a Lawyer
Yes, we do understand that filling out legal paperwork and showing up at court might seem like a daunting task, and one you won’t be able to take care of by yourself. However, filing the paperwork is actually easier than you think.
If you do think that things might get overwhelming, you could always consider outside help. There are companies that simplify the process by giving you all the paperwork you need to fill out. Some will even put all the forms and instructions in one easy place, and make things as simple as possible. What sounds like an intimidating process at first is now actually pretty simple.
It Will Cost You
This does vary greatly depending on where you are. For example, prices in the UK are much different from prices in the US. What they both have in common, though, is that a court order is going to cost you a pretty hefty fee.
Another thing you’ll need to pay for is to get your forms notarized. This is usually pretty cheap though, and not something to be concerned about. Oh, and if you’re getting married, make sure you get a few additional certified copies of your marriage certificate. You can use this as proof of your new last name.
Update Everyone, but Don’t Jump the Gun
A surname change is a significant change. Therefore, you should definitely update everyone on it. First, come government agencies, and then you’ve got businesses, family, and friends. You’ll need new documents, such as a driver’s license, and you should let your banks, credit card companies, and utility companies aware of your new surname. Update any medical records and insurance, and make sure you change any legal documents, such as a trust or a will.
But, be careful not to rush this. Even though it is important to keep everyone updated on your new name, if you do this too soon, it will create logistical problems. A smart thing to do would be to wait until you have your official paperwork in hand. For example, waiting might help you keep that good credit you’ve built under your old name. Also, it might take a few weeks for the passport office to be notified of your new married name, so if you’re booking any travels, make sure your name matches the one on your passport.
